My Girlfriend Doesn’t Make Any Noise During Sex
Not me, not my girlfriend, kekeke. I came across this and found this very funny, and interesting. This is a question from a reader to Metro.co.uk‘s relationship expert, Flirt Diva (Sue Ostler). The reader is in a confused state. The email to Flirt Diva goes like this:
Dear Flirt Diva,
My girlfriend doesn’t make any noise when we are having sex. She says she enjoys it and even orgasms every time.
Most girls I have been with scream out and make pleasurable noises and it confirms that I am doing a good job.
I told her this and she got angry with me and said well if it makes you happy I will fake it.
Lately she has been making a lot of noise, but I feel like an idiot as now I know it isn’t real.
I wish I never said anything. How can I make things normal again?
I do think that the guy was kind of naive to judge a girl’s sexual satisfaction based on her noise during sex. I feel it is more like he wants to hear the moaning to satisfy himself, his own ego rather than to satisfy his girlfriend.
I agree with you. Usually guys just wan to hear those moans to make them feel better and to know that they are good at it.
It is ego……