I Was So Tempted to Have a Fling……
Jul 4, 2008 Life, Scandals, Singapore, Stupid Stuffs
Taken from a local forum:
it took me alot of courage to post this thread….think it shud be safe cos i dunno any1 from here
i’m a very faithful n loyal gf… all my bgrs are long lasting. my 1st relationship lasted 5 yrs. ended when he went army and decided to flirt around. my 2nd bf lasted 2 yrs. was very abusive n flirtatious til i couldnt take it… my 3rd bf 2 years and still counting….
i’m very romantic, alwaz surprising my other half with gifts and small handmade stuff. i supposed i belong to e xiao nu ren category… all my frenz say i live for love… quite true for my case… my time is totally devoted to my bf… i am sociable with many guy frenz but i noe my limits. all my bfs were v poor… for ur info, i’m in my early twenties but i neva eva depend on bf.. i drive my own car, buy my own clothes n bags and pay my own meals.
my colleagues say i’m a fairly low maintenance kind of gf..
thus my ex all take me for granted. lots of times i ended up paying for their clothes, movies, their meals…i alwaz believed in a fairy type of romance… but i fear i have lost myself as i grow older…
i used to think love is enough, no bread neva mind…but now, i no longer think so… i feel upset it’s alwaz me having to fork out for dates, when anniversary he cant even afford to bring me out for meal or buy flowers… i mind when i’m e 1 alwaz fetching him home, driving him to work…
my mind (and eye) now keep wandering to other guys… i’m afraid… i have alwaz prided myself on being a very faithful gf… i’m afraid i’m becoming materialistic… but another part of me feels, as we grow older, our needs are different, e pple we come into contact with, are different…
i post here as my frenz dun understand my prob… they think is very simple, juz break up if i’m so unhappy…. but i juz cant do it…
i dunno how to explain… i very easily soft hearted, e moment a guy cry i cant stand it.. i feel so troubled… i got to noe a guy recently who drives, pay for dates (yes i went out secretly few times with him and got hell from my bf who found out)…..
i ask myself honestly… is it cos he drive so i like him?? my ans is no… i think wat i wanted was e feeling of being treated like a princess… for once, being driven instead of driving e guy, for once e guy plan e date instead of me, for once being surprised with gifts instead of me making efforts….
well to get down to e pt, i was very tempted to have a fling….i noe it’s so wrong and a betrayal but i’m juz getting more n more miserable…
Anyone wanna help this troubled lady? Offer your genuine opinions? Or offer to be her fling?
Tags: fling, forum, relationship, Singapore
