I Was So Tempted to Have a Fling……
Jul 4, 2008 Life, Scandals, Singapore, Stupid Stuffs
Taken from a local forum:
it took me alot of courage to post this thread….think it shud be safe cos i dunno any1 from here
i’m a very faithful n loyal gf… all my bgrs are long lasting. my 1st relationship lasted 5 yrs. ended when he went army and decided to flirt around. my 2nd bf lasted 2 yrs. was very abusive n flirtatious til i couldnt take it… my 3rd bf 2 years and still counting….
i’m very romantic, alwaz surprising my other half with gifts and small handmade stuff. i supposed i belong to e xiao nu ren category… all my frenz say i live for love… quite true for my case… my time is totally devoted to my bf… i am sociable with many guy frenz but i noe my limits. all my bfs were v poor… for ur info, i’m in my early twenties but i neva eva depend on bf.. i drive my own car, buy my own clothes n bags and pay my own meals.
my colleagues say i’m a fairly low maintenance kind of gf..
thus my ex all take me for granted. lots of times i ended up paying for their clothes, movies, their meals…i alwaz believed in a fairy type of romance… but i fear i have lost myself as i grow older…
i used to think love is enough, no bread neva mind…but now, i no longer think so… i feel upset it’s alwaz me having to fork out for dates, when anniversary he cant even afford to bring me out for meal or buy flowers… i mind when i’m e 1 alwaz fetching him home, driving him to work…
my mind (and eye) now keep wandering to other guys… i’m afraid… i have alwaz prided myself on being a very faithful gf… i’m afraid i’m becoming materialistic… but another part of me feels, as we grow older, our needs are different, e pple we come into contact with, are different…
i post here as my frenz dun understand my prob… they think is very simple, juz break up if i’m so unhappy…. but i juz cant do it…
i dunno how to explain… i very easily soft hearted, e moment a guy cry i cant stand it.. i feel so troubled… i got to noe a guy recently who drives, pay for dates (yes i went out secretly few times with him and got hell from my bf who found out)…..
i ask myself honestly… is it cos he drive so i like him?? my ans is no… i think wat i wanted was e feeling of being treated like a princess… for once, being driven instead of driving e guy, for once e guy plan e date instead of me, for once being surprised with gifts instead of me making efforts….
well to get down to e pt, i was very tempted to have a fling….i noe it’s so wrong and a betrayal but i’m juz getting more n more miserable…
Anyone wanna help this troubled lady? Offer your genuine opinions? Or offer to be her fling?
Tags: fling, forum, relationship, Singapore
NUS female students needed for “no-string-attached” relationship
Apr 16, 2008 Gossips, Singapore
An NUS part time Master student put up a post on Gumtree Singapore, looking for NUS female student to engage in a “no-string-attached, discreet” relationship. He wants only NUS student and is willing to pay the girl S$200 per month, until she graduates. So, anyone here eligible, interested?
Any NUS FEMALE student need packet money S$200/- per month
Ad ID: 45214220
Views: 629
Location: Singapore
Date Listed: 09/04/2008I’m doing Master’s in NUS on part-time basis. Any NUS FEMALE student who is in short of packet money, in the age group of 18-30 who is doing full-time or part-time program, interested in “no-string-attached” discreet and confidential relationship for monthly once can contact me. I’m ready to pay SGD$200/- per month till you complete your graduation. I’m doing this for the first time hence cleanliness is assured and expecting the same.
As prostitutes can fake as students, I’ll be checking for NUS IDs to verify in the NUS library.
Please don’t reply me with one line adv. This is a genuine adv.
Direct link: Any NUS FEMALE student need packet money S$200/- per month
Tags: Gumtree Singapore, NUS, relationship, sex
This agency helps you to say “Honey, let’s break up.”
Apr 1, 2008 Around the Word, Gossips
They surely makes separation looks easy, and direct, some, cheap. Just pay the fee of 20 or 50 Euro, they will do the job for you. I wish I will never need their service.
Quoted:
“We have had dating agencies for 30 years. If you want to have a new partnership then you have to quit your previous one.
“I think it’s the same market - just in reverse,” Mr Dressler told the BBC.
This sounds cruel, but I do feel that, they are doing a good deed because they are not encouraging 2-timing. That’s the most evil behavour in any relationship.
BBC News: Agency makes breaking up easier
Tags: business, Germany, Money, relationship
Ladies Secret Service - A Service to Win Your Lover Back!
Jan 28, 2008 Around the Word, Funny News
Wah, my eyes rolling…. This kind of service they also can provide. And this is a long long long process man. Will you do engage such service? I wonder what the company can guarantee? What if they fail?
Taken from Gurdian UK:
Win your lover back (for £3,300 a month)
· Japanese agencies offer reconciliations by stealth
· Some remarry without knowing they were targets
Justin McCurry in Tokyo
Friday January 25, 2008Guardian
A decade after the appearance of yamesaseya, professional “splitters” who specialised in ending relationships at the behest of an unhappy, but timid, partner, Japan is in the midst of a boom in services that promise the opposite: reuniting couples months, and sometimes years, after they have gone their separate ways.
Ladies Secret Service, a private detective agency in Tokyo’s upmarket Ginza district, has successfully rekindled romances on behalf of hundreds of men and women who are prepared to spend huge sums on their quest to win back former lovers.
The agency’s president, Yoshiko Okawa, employs about 300 men and women who are selected for their ability to befriend their targets and convince them that breaking up with an ex-lover or divorcing their spouse was the biggest mistake of their lives.
Her team of fukuenya - “those who restore bonds” - use hi-tech surveillance, counselling and outright deception to achieve the most unlikely reconciliations.
“After they have won the target’s trust, they might mention our client in passing and feign amazement when they realise they have a mutual acquaintance,” Okawa said, as she sat in her office surrounded by an array of hi-tech surveillance gadgets.
“All the while our agents are learning as much about their new friend as possible and devising a plan to reunite him or her with our client.” The trigger for reconciliation could be a chance meeting in the street or a location that evokes happy memories of their time together, she said.
In 2005 Ladies Secret Service received 110 requests for help, rising to 430 by the end of 2006. Last year it handled more than 800 cases. About 70% of its clients are women, aged between 20 and 40, who are prepared to spend up to 700,000 yen (£3,300) a month to win back their men.
“We relay any complaints the target has to our client, so they can decide whether to make the necessary changes to repair their relationship,” Okawa said. “It could be a divorcee who wants to get back with her ex-husband, but who needs to change her appearance or keep the house tidier before there is any chance of that happening.”
When the obstacle to a possible reconciliation is a third person, the agents face the task of engineering the end of one relationship before they can repair the other.
“We do an incredible amount of research into the new man or woman in our target’s life, and then drop hints that he or she is unsuitable,” says Okawa, a 40-year-old former office worker whose divorce - and infatuation with James Bond films - prompted her career change.
“Before long the target knows all about his new lover’s debt problems, her sordid past, or the fact that she has a young child she failed to mention.” The tactic is reminiscent of the yamesaseya, whose expertise in breaking up relationships was in greatest demand a few years ago.
Typically, fukuenya agents are presentable and sociable, but insiders say the most successful have a quick mind as well as good looks. “They’ve got to be able to think on their feet and stand out in some way,” said Satoyo Nakamura, who reunites couples for another company, the Japan Research Information Centre.
“Looks alone aren’t usually enough to bring in the results you get paid to produce,” Nakamura told a weekly magazine. “It’s a job that requires being able to assume the role of a counsellor who can bring about radical changes in thinking, not just in the target, but also in the client. It’s an extremely difficult job.”
Fukuenya carry out their operations in utmost secrecy. Even when attempts at reconciliation are successful, the targets must never learn how they came about, says Okawa, who routinely refuses media requests to interview clients or agents.
In one typical case an agent tried to convince a bar hostess to go back to her ex-husband. Over five months he frequented the woman’s club pretending to be a wealthy businessman, accompanied by a friend posing as a fortune teller.
He spoke about how his friend’s psychic insights had helped him become rich, and before long the hostess agreed to have her fortune read. The soothsayer’s advice was, of course, to return to her ex-husband. They reunited and eventually remarried.
She puts her success rate at around 50%, and Okawa believes that as long as Japan can stave off recession, more lovelorn people will seek her help. “When the economy was in real trouble, people were defeatist and tended to give up on relationships too easily, even if money wasn’t the actual cause of the break-up,” she said. “Now that they have more money in their pockets they are naturally more optimistic, even about winning back old flames.”
Tags: Japan, love, relationship, service
